Love

There are many people who have found their Mr. or Mrs. Right and the ones that haven't found their one and only, they wonder "Why can't I find my true love."  Well love isn't easy and sometimes we let the outer appearance fog our judgment.  You know in high school there is this nice, sweet, smart person that has a huge crush on you, but you decided that they weren't your type because you thought that they were beneath you and that you feel that you deserve the hottest person on campus, or something along those lines.... And what ends up happening that that hot person ends up being a real jerk and treats you real badly.  We need to get to know a person on a much deeper level to get to know them and see who they really are.  Their personalities will shine through and you realize how beautiful, or handsome a person can really be.  Or the person you thought that was super cute ends up being a real pain in to butt and is really mean to everyone ends up not being so great looking...

And there is the people who feel lonely because they don't have anyone...and yes, love is an amazing feeling to feel and having someone to share this feelings with is the best feeling in the world!  But the advice I will give is don't go looking for it.  You'll just end up looking for love at all the wrong places with all the wrong people.  You should just take care of you and be happy for everything in your life.  Because a partner isn't going to get you a job (you are), they aren't going to get you through school (you are), and they aren't going to decide your life for you (you are) Once you stop looking and start having a good time and doing everything in life that you want to do someone may show up and they may end up being the one.

This one guy I know has a huge crush on this one girl for the longest time and she would be nice to him and what not.  But she is really shallow and only go for the popular guys.  So one day he asked her to go out for lunch as friends.  She agrees to it and when the day comes, she makes up a some phony story of why she couldn't make it, so the scheduled for another day.  When that day came, she doesn't show and calls him up saying that she doesn't think its right and said "I don't like you"  He was all heartbroken about it.  I told him that its better to be single and have your friends then to end up with someone who doesn't love you and will mistreat you.  What is the point of being in a relationship if you aren't going to be happy.

Don't shut off from possible relationships, but don't jump into them blind.  Take it slow, get to know the person, and be yourself.  Also remember to be happy with yourself because if you aren't happy with you and how are you going to be happy in a relationship.