Good Men

We women always complain about where are all the good men.  Not all of us, but a good amount does.  And our reason why is that they are all taken, or gay.  That isn't true!  There is plenty of good men out there, it is just that we are being shallow or our standers are too high.  We complain that all the guys are jerks, and we have us to blame for it.

There is plenty of nice guys out there and we need to stop and take the time to get to know them.  But what we end up doing is we go for the hot jerk.  But that doesn't matter because he is so hot and it is okay if he treats us like crap, right?  Wrong!  Because we go for the jerks, the good guys think they need to be one so they can get someone to notice them.

Not all the good guys that are sweet is gay.  It is all inner beauty.  When we get to know someone long enough we start to see their inner self.  If they are sweet and kind on the inside, then more and likely you see a beautiful person with a beautiful soul.  But when the inner beauty stinks and they are a major pain in the butt and treat everyone horribly...more and likely they aren't that great looking.

All the good ones are taken...it is either that the ones that are in relationships because they have someone that is thankful for them, or that they are jerks and they found someone that is stupid to stay with them.   But don't try to take a great guy away from someone...that isn't cool...why break up two people's happiness for your own.  You'll find someone who is just as great....but don't sink to a low level to steal another man from a person...that isn't cool...

So we have ourselves to thank why good guys are being jerks...because we are going for that kind of guy.  So if you are in a relationship with a really great guy, don't take him for granted.  Be thankful that you are lucky to be blessed with a good man!