You'll Find Love, But Don't Take mine

My boyfriend and I had a huge fight back in May about the things he has done up at Humboldt.  I found out that he broke his promise to me by hanging out with the girls that shall remain nameless behind my back.  He told me that he wouldn't talk to them, let alone hang out with them.  He didn't just lied to me, but also breaking his promise to me.  Later in that conversation that he said that he was wrapped around their fingers and bend over backwards for them.  I was so hurt because I can't get him to do much for me, not even see a scary movie with me.  So I told him that I can't stand for him lying to me and breaking promises and treating other girls better than he does me.  So I told him that I was leaving him because that what he was doing isn't fair to me.  He stopped me and told me that he would cut them off, and said that he would be fine without them, and that he needed me.  So I gave him a day to keep his word to me and he did so.  Now one of them that I know is trying *desperately* get back in his life. So he just ignores her.

Every once in awhile I see her post something that relates to boy problems...maybe because she would end up cheating on them, or gets tried of them quickly.  I sent her a message a while ago saying that "don't worry.  You don't look for love, it will find you." or something like that.  She seems really friendly, but only to learn that she was being nice just so she can get close to my boyfriend.    And now everything I like she is liking as well.  She is using my name.  It's B.S.  But I guess I should be flatter that she wants to be me.

A word of advice is that don't go looking for love because you'll never find it.  And don't take someone's happiness because you want them for a week.  And trying being yourself...Because if you do go into a relationship, it will last longer if they know the real you and the person that you pretend to be.  You want them to fall in love with you...not me

Hypocrisy

A few post ago I posted something about relationships and the single life and what not...well I saw a post that said: "Don t you just hate it when you see other people always constantly talk about how much they love there gf or bf and your like. Ya that's awesome im happy for you but in you head your like "thanks for reminding me im fucking single asshole" haha"  Once again I have to do a little rant about it.  This guy that posted that as his status use to be a great guy.  But over a year ago, his girlfriend broke up with him after she left for college.  He was jealous and would threaten every guy that would stare at her direction.  Ever since they broke up he went down hill, drinking, smoking pot, and hanging out with the wrong crowds.  He became, pardon my french, an ass!


This post isn't about picking on him, but the fact that he is the type of person that would do the same thing if he was in a relationship with someone.  But because he is not in a relationship, so he goes on and picks the ones that are.   I will agree that there are some people out there that would post something like "OMG!  I've been with my boyfriend for 10 seconds."  or something like that, or they just post something just to get approval from friends.  But there are some people that do post not to hope that their love one does read it or their friends, but to share there happy feelings.  It's a matter of stepping back and looking at the big picture and the type of person that is posting.

And if it your "so called friends" that are doing the posting.  Instead of getting jealous of them...should you be happy for them and not talking smack about them?   It is okay if you get jealous of a friend...we all went down that road....but you shouldn't treat them like dirt. 


I guess my advice would be.. .If you don't like a post, don't read it.  And if it is bugging you so much then don't be friends with people that are in relationships.  And if you are going to post something on facebook about how it bugs you so much...take a step back and look at yourself before point any fingers.  Because if you are just as bad as the people you claim that are doing such things...then don't complain.