Restlessly Still

Restlessly Still

Saturday, July 27, 2013

Love and Blame

Lately I've seen a bunch of post on Facebook, bloggs, you name it, has been about how horrible men are and how badly he has hurt you.  I get that a lot of guys are jerks and they can be be heartless.  But seeing and hearing how the relationship ended it sound like the girl was being psychotic.

I see girls being fans on sites like "when guys treat their girlfriends like princesses."  And I agree that guys should treat their girlfriend with respect, but it is a two way street.  Girls should treat their guys with respect.  Girls expect the man do all the work, but that is not how it works.

Relationship is a partnership.  If girls put in a little more effort as the expect the guy to do maybe it might work. Not all guys are jerks and not every girl is a princess.

Words of advice:
Instead of posting things saying what a guy should do and what you are expecting him to be...you should say I'm going to try as long as you are going to.

Friday, July 5, 2013

What happen to politeness?

I know I haven't really been on here for a while, but this topic is going to be a good one!

Since my last blog and now, I've ran into the rudest people that anyone would meet.  Awhile ago, I was on the bus and you see punk kids sitting on the seats, and you see moms with their babies, elderly people would be the one standing.  I don't think that is right at all.  They have signs posted that the seats should be given up to the elderly, and I say the moms with the babies should have right away to the seats.

Still on the bus,I was standing by the back exist (because that is where there is room to stand), bus driver stops at one of the stops and a person pushed me into a crowed of people to get off the bus.  No tap on the shoulder, no excuse me....nothing.

I'm the type that would hold a door open for another person even if they are 10 feet a way, and I also check behind me to make sure if I have someone behind me or not.  I was following a lady out of a Starbucks.  I had my hands full and she didn't even bother to look at me and close the door on my face.  And she is the one that gave me a dirty look.


I don't know if it is people have always been like that and I'm just realizing it.  Or this generation, and/or this area is just extra rude.

Word Of Advice:
No matter how rude people is, don't stoop down to their level and just keep being polite and walk the higher ground.