Gay marriages

Okay! I'm done with these facebook status going back and forward about gay people. I try not to get involved, but here is how I view this whole thing:

Those who are against gay marriages: You have the right to believe w. hat you do believe. If you don't agree or like gay marriages...that is your right and no one should take that away from you. But do not bash on gays and bring in the bible to support lies. Yes it does say marriages is between a man and a woman, but it doesn't say hate gay people. I met a gay man who is also a heavy duty Christian (Training to be a minister and his father is a minister). The main character in the bible (Jesus) didn't say a word about being gay is wrong!

Those who are for gay marriages: I agree that we should have it and make everyone equal. Some (not all) are starting to get to the point of heterphobia and grouping every straight person as a bigot. Because a few jerks acts a certain way doesn't speak for the rest of the group. Also not pushing people like the idea....We need to be tolerant with each other. If some straight people don't like it, and it is okay for them to feel that.

My view: Church and State needs to be separate! Allow gay marriages, but don't force churches to have it. People can get married by a judge and that is good. If you want to be married in a church...make a new church, or religion. That's what king Henry did, so he could get a divorce. Plus we have this thing called the first amendment (Freedom of religion).

Ballroom Dancing

My boyfriend and I are taking ballroom dancing together, here are some questions that I had to answer for my class.  First quiz of the Fall =)



1.  Briefly discuss your dance training.

I have little dance training.  I took a dance class last spring that covered the basics of Jazz dancing, modern dancing, and ballet. 

2. Why are you enrolled in this class?

I’ve always loved dancing. I’ve always wanted to try dancing after watching dancing with the stars.  I also want to learn the right ways of dancing.  I’m very clumsy and I want to dance with my boyfriend with out stepping on his feet.

3. How do you think this class will help you in the future?

I’m planning to marry my boyfriend and I want us to be able to dance together and making it look amazing.  I’ve always loved dancing and I might as well learn it the right way.

4. Briefly discuss one limitation that you are aware of in your current dance training and you may begin to start to overcome that limitation.

The only thing that I would say is that I’m very clumsy and I have two left feet.  But there isn’t anything that will hold me back from trying my hardest.

5.  What is your main goal for the Semester?

My goal is to be able to dance well and lose some weight

6. Are you working with any injuries or conditions that may require modifications during your dance training?

I have no injuries or conditions that need to be modifications

Goodbye to bad rubbish

This one chick doesn't get the hint that my boyfriend is ignoring her.  She is desperately trying to get in contact with him and she is too stupid to get the freaking clue.  My boyfriend doesn't like being mean to people and he tries to avoid conflict as much as possible.  So, last night I sent her a message telling her to leave him alone and that he really doesn't want anything to do with you.  This was her response:

"Whatever.
If he isn't enough of a man to tell me himself why all of a sudden we aren't friends anymore, then good riddance."

The answer is that you don't respect other people's spaces, you mooch off of everyone, and you are a freaking homewrecker.  DUH!  


Just because you can't keep your legs close and another notch of your belt respects his girlfriend and doesn't want to touch you with a 10 foot pole doesn't mean he isn't a man.  You took advantage of his good nature and he is trying to be a the good guy, but he still gets annoyed with you.  So please, stop being a bitch and move on with your life...you might  be slightly happy...

P.S.  If you stop being so full of yourself, you might find a guy that might tolerate your bullshit a little longer. 

You'll Find Love, But Don't Take mine

My boyfriend and I had a huge fight back in May about the things he has done up at Humboldt.  I found out that he broke his promise to me by hanging out with the girls that shall remain nameless behind my back.  He told me that he wouldn't talk to them, let alone hang out with them.  He didn't just lied to me, but also breaking his promise to me.  Later in that conversation that he said that he was wrapped around their fingers and bend over backwards for them.  I was so hurt because I can't get him to do much for me, not even see a scary movie with me.  So I told him that I can't stand for him lying to me and breaking promises and treating other girls better than he does me.  So I told him that I was leaving him because that what he was doing isn't fair to me.  He stopped me and told me that he would cut them off, and said that he would be fine without them, and that he needed me.  So I gave him a day to keep his word to me and he did so.  Now one of them that I know is trying *desperately* get back in his life. So he just ignores her.

Every once in awhile I see her post something that relates to boy problems...maybe because she would end up cheating on them, or gets tried of them quickly.  I sent her a message a while ago saying that "don't worry.  You don't look for love, it will find you." or something like that.  She seems really friendly, but only to learn that she was being nice just so she can get close to my boyfriend.    And now everything I like she is liking as well.  She is using my name.  It's B.S.  But I guess I should be flatter that she wants to be me.

A word of advice is that don't go looking for love because you'll never find it.  And don't take someone's happiness because you want them for a week.  And trying being yourself...Because if you do go into a relationship, it will last longer if they know the real you and the person that you pretend to be.  You want them to fall in love with you...not me

Hypocrisy

A few post ago I posted something about relationships and the single life and what not...well I saw a post that said: "Don t you just hate it when you see other people always constantly talk about how much they love there gf or bf and your like. Ya that's awesome im happy for you but in you head your like "thanks for reminding me im fucking single asshole" haha"  Once again I have to do a little rant about it.  This guy that posted that as his status use to be a great guy.  But over a year ago, his girlfriend broke up with him after she left for college.  He was jealous and would threaten every guy that would stare at her direction.  Ever since they broke up he went down hill, drinking, smoking pot, and hanging out with the wrong crowds.  He became, pardon my french, an ass!


This post isn't about picking on him, but the fact that he is the type of person that would do the same thing if he was in a relationship with someone.  But because he is not in a relationship, so he goes on and picks the ones that are.   I will agree that there are some people out there that would post something like "OMG!  I've been with my boyfriend for 10 seconds."  or something like that, or they just post something just to get approval from friends.  But there are some people that do post not to hope that their love one does read it or their friends, but to share there happy feelings.  It's a matter of stepping back and looking at the big picture and the type of person that is posting.

And if it your "so called friends" that are doing the posting.  Instead of getting jealous of them...should you be happy for them and not talking smack about them?   It is okay if you get jealous of a friend...we all went down that road....but you shouldn't treat them like dirt. 


I guess my advice would be.. .If you don't like a post, don't read it.  And if it is bugging you so much then don't be friends with people that are in relationships.  And if you are going to post something on facebook about how it bugs you so much...take a step back and look at yourself before point any fingers.  Because if you are just as bad as the people you claim that are doing such things...then don't complain. 

A diverse world

Hello everyone!  I know that I haven't been on awhile and I really haven't had much to talk about.  I've also been very busy working on upgrading my permit by taking more ECE classes and I'm going to be starting on working on getting my B.S degree.   I'm so excited!  One of the classes I took is ECE 165: teaching children about a diverse community.  In this class, we didn't just learned about being tolerant towards others, but to also to look at ourselves and open up.  One class meeting we had a group to come in and talk to the class.  GLIDE is the name of the group, and it is a gay support groups. 

One of the speakers there is a minister and very heavy in his religion but at the end he comes out to being gay.  At first he thought that he had to give up his religion because he was gay.  After a few years of opening up, he talked to his father (also a minister) said that there is nothing in the bible to say that being gay is wrong and to hate them for it. He started a branch of the church for people who are gay to  come in and pray.  He said that it is important to be yourself and opening up.

I guess what I'm trying to say is that I understand for people not agreeing with homosexuality and that is okay to not agree with it.  Everyone does have the right to believe what they want to believe, but to go around and saying that these people need to die because you don't like is wrong.  Sometimes we forget what our founding fathers were trying to get across that this is the land of the free and the fact that we do need to respect all religions, race, genders, sexual orientation, abilities, social class, ect.  Especially for those who want to work in a field with children and wanting to make a difference. 

We need to put aside personal feelings and do what is right.  We have the power to change this world and to grow into something that can be great, but we need to understand that we are the ones that are giving the tools and guide them.  Lets guide the children in a positive way and make a world a better place!

Eating Hot wings

Boys eating fire!